Not only innocent apping, dating and relationship seeking, but also dating for sex through Tinder is something that is done a lot. Here we tell you more about Tinder for sex.
Tinder sex app or dating
Whether Tinder is a sex app or dating app is entirely up to you on how you use it. With more than 1 million Dutch Tinder users, the app is incredibly popular. For both looking for a relationship or just a one-night stand you can go on Tinder. Those looking for an onenight stand are more likely to return to the platform.
On Tinder, a large proportion of people are only after one thing and that is sex! Even though we pretend it’s not. Believe it or not women also arrange sex through Tinder. Most have Tinder for curiosity, entertainment and pastime. Because you find each other physically attractive, dating for sex is greater than a relationship.
Profile Tips for Tinder Sex
It all starts with a good profile picture. This will make sure you get swiped to the right. Choose a real recent photo of yourself, but also be original so you stand out. Of course, make sure your face is clearly visible. Also make sure your upper body is in the photo. Don’t go for a selfie.
Your photo also determines what kind of material you are or in other words how you come across to women. The photo is the most important aspect in Tinder. Women like mysterious. The right balance between not too serious and not funny/smiling is the ideal combination. A little ‘bad’ boy, but at the same time the ‘sweet’ boy.
Know how to attract attention with your photo by doing something interesting. Come across as confident and certainly don’t be afraid of being rejected.
After all, your photo generates the most matches and is the first thing they look at before looking further at your bio, for example. So selecting the right photo is incredibly important.
A funny and playful bio will generate more matches than an empty one. So don’t forget to pay attention to your bio text as well. Stay true to yourself and share the information that makes you unique and approachable.
The best opening sentence
Once you have a match, it’s all about your opening line. A personal opening line works wonders. Look for common things you can see in each other’s profiles and ask open-ended questions to keep the conversation going. So no questions with yes or no answers. Make your opening line irresistible so the conversation can begin.
What Conversation Topics for Sex?
What should you talk about to get sex? First, don’t talk directly about sex. It’s a game of decorating. Decorate her in a playful way. Talk more about experiences instead of information. Experiences actually arouse emotion and information does nothing to you. Especially since we love exciting stories. After all, this attracts our attention instead of hearing purely facts.
For an exciting conversation, use your imagination and put your feelings into words as well. Don’t ask questions yourself, but let her come up with the questions. Make her feel like she’s missing something if she’s not talking to you and is sitting around longing for your next message.
You can talk about something exciting you experienced for example your life lesson, your exciting world trip, the coolest restaurant you discovered, that movie without an ending and other things.
Also keep in mind not to play it safe but also make your conversation sexual with over the top sexual remarks. Exaggerated, funny and low-key is perfect making the atmosphere between you sexual. An example is “That look of yours indicates that you are already undressing me” or “I see you are only thinking about one thing…”. Sexual tension is built up in this way.
How to get sex on Tinder with the right words.
Using the right words will ensure that you are found attractive and arrange Tinder sex. Use strong phrases and avoid questionable words like “maybe,” “possibly,” etc….
Come across as a leader and show that you are clear and without question. Make sure women don’t have to start thinking about whether or not they want a date with you, but more about the date itself such as ‘what are we going to drink’. The date is then settled right away and not left in doubt.
How do you choose the right match?
How do you know what someone is looking for on Tinder? There are recognizable signs and phrases that already indicate this. Like ‘no ONS’ which stands for no one night stands. If it is not in the profile you will find out in most cases during the conversation. Always make sure you have a friendly flirtation approach and don’t come across as rude/offensive.
The matches that are attractive to you and displayed is determined by Tinder based on your photo and common interests, among other things. It’s not simply swiping everything to the right and just hoping for a match. In the long run, this will make you less attractive to Tinder. So choose your match carefully.
For more Tinder options, choose a paid subscription such as Tinder Plus or Tinder Gold.
The Tinder Sex Date
Once you have planned a date with your match, it comes down to a proper approach to your Tinder Sexdate. Both men and women often let at least one of their girlfriends or friends know that they have a date.
The Tinder appointment made is of course to first ‘just’ get acquainted with each other over a drink, for example. The emphasis will obviously be on sex, but this will not be expressed. The advice is also not to pronounce this, otherwise you may end up not having a Tinder sex date at all. Women in particular are less likely to come forward with this.
The best place for a sex date is obviously in your home. You will not be disturbed and the bedroom is nice and close. Only to meet at home you need a good excuse, because a first time meeting at home will often not happen right away. Think of an original activity you can do alone at home such as cooking together or playing a video game. If you don’t meet at home make sure you are close to home.
